Everyday Struggles, Eternal Strength
Lessons from Parshas Ki Seitzei on overcoming challenges with faith, courage, and resilience.
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“When you go out to war against your enemies…” (Devarim 21:10). The Torah opens this week with the language of a battlefield. Chassidus teaches that it also describes the inner battlefield we all face — the daily struggle to live with clarity, compassion, and purpose.
The verse reads ki teitzei lamilchama al oyvecha — not if you go out, but when. Struggle isn’t a detour; it’s built into our mission. The question isn’t whether we’ll confront challenges — it’s how we’ll meet them.
“Who is strong? One who conquers his inclination.” — Pirkei Avos 4:1
This parsha also contains the most mitzvos of any portion — seventy-four — from family life to business ethics. The Rebbe explains that everyday life is full of “small battles”: choosing honesty when shortcuts tempt, responding with patience when irritation flares, and holding on to faith when the road darkens. Each such choice is a real victory.
On a recent solidarity mission to Israel with fellow law‑enforcement chaplains, I met officers and civilians who have endured trauma and loss — yet continue to radiate purpose. Their courage reminded me that, while not all of us wear a badge or carry a radio, every one of us “goes out” to a daily battle: sometimes with events outside us, and often with the voices within.
Key idea: Torah doesn’t just tell us to fight — it gives us the power to win. Every time we align our actions with our higher self, we bring more light into the world.
Choose kindness over reactivity. Pause before replying; let dignity lead.
Practice honest dealing. Review a current task and make it “extra kosher.”
Add a minute of light. Set aside 60 seconds for Tehillim or a moment of gratitude.
Small victories add up. The ones no one sees are often the most transformative.
Share this insight with a friend who could use a bit of strength this week.
Devarim 21:10 — “When you go out to war against your enemies.”
Rashi to Devarim 21:10 (context of the parsha’s opening).
Likkutei Sichos, vol. 4, Parshas Ki Seitzei — on the inner battle and everyday victories.
Tanya, chs. 27–28 — the ongoing struggle between the G‑dly soul and the animal soul.
Pirkei Avos 4:1 — “Who is strong? One who conquers his inclination.”